Not many people are bold enough to venture into the unknown, step out of their comfort zone, and try new sex positions. Sure, the classic missionary, doggy style, cowgirl are a safe option. But it doesn’t have to be like this.
There are plenty of inventive sex positions that can lead to a better orgasm for you and your partner. And they don’t include having the flexibility of a yoga master. At least most of them. But don’t worry, you can still try them, just be safe and take it slowly.
You can also find two bonus positions for even more satisfaction at the end of this article. And now buckle up and let’s get to the list.
The Pretzel Dip
This position allows for a penetration similar to the doggy style but allows for eye contact and the partners to face one another.
The hands of both partners are free in this position, creating space for stimulation of the clitoris, breasts or testicles, depending on your partner’s gender. So how do you get into this position? Have your partner lie on their back, while you enter from the side with your legs positioned between your partner’s legs.
Curl your partner’s leg around you for more contact. To spice things up, play with your partner’s genitals for greater effect. Or simply use one of “Ohh toys” from your arsenal.
The Hot Seat
This is a rear-entry position. Your partner is sitting in your lap with your legs between theirs. He/she is sitting on top and is in control of the pace, depth, and angle of the penetration while you just sit back and relax.
If your partner is a woman, this is a great way to stimulate her G-spot. Either way, your hands are free so you can run all over your partner’s body and do all sorts of things. Your partner is the dominant one in this position. That makes it one of the best positions for both of you. This is also a very versatile position so don’t be afraid to play around.
If your partner is a woman, she will enjoy deep penetration and a perfect targeting of the G-spot. But of course, this position can be relished even if your partner is a man. Whatever the gender of your partner is you can still enjoy watching them come.
Alternatively, you can try to raise your partner’s legs and rest their calves on your shoulders.
This position is great for somebody that is not-so-well-endowed. It is because the receiver can simply bring their legs together what creates a snug fit, making you feel larger to your partner.
It is basically the same position as the hot seat except for you’re looking into your partner’s eyes instead of staring at their back. This is a very cozy position for long sessions.
But you can also go full rodeo and assist your partner by grabbing their buttocks and lifting and bouncing. It also gives you the space to kiss your partner, bite their neck, or whatever you’re into.
Unfortunately, when it comes to intercourse with women there is a downside to this one when we compare it to the hot seat. It doesn’t stimulate the G-spot the same way, because your partner can’t adjust the angle of penetration.
Also knows as the “downward dog” or the “belly flop” is a position where you and your partner form a shape where your partner resembles a dog that is about to play.
To make things a bit easier, put a pillow under your partner’s pelvis so that they don’t have to hold their weight. You enter them from behind. Do not put your weight on them as it can be uncomfortable in this position and instead prop yourself up with your arms.
If you’re struggling with premature ejaculation try this position. You will last longer if you switch to shallower thrusts and begin deep breathing.
The Ballet Dancer
This one is a great option for a quickie or outdoor sex. It allows for easier penetration. Your partner has control of thrusting, depth, and angle. This is a standing position.
So you start by facing each other and your partner raises one of their legs up and wraps it around your buttocks or thigh and pulls you into them with their leg. Sounds easy right? That’s because it is. Low effort high reward.
If your partner is flexible enough try to put their leg on your shoulder for deeper penetration. Then you can also shift things into bed, if there is one around, and continue there.
The Standing 0
Not all sex positions have to be about penetration. This one isn’t and yet it is one of the best positions ever.
While you’re on your knees, have your partner stand up-right. Then they should put one of their legs on your shoulder and around your neck, while you eat them out.
This is an ideal position for all kinds of oral sex: clit sucking, deepthroat, rubbing, digital penetration, rim job, you name it. For a more hardcore experience, tie your partner’s hand above their head.
Another position that doesn’t involve penetration. Put a pillow under your partner’s pelvis and just go for it. Your partner will really appreciate this position if they’re into strong, upward strokes.
If you want to expand your oral efforts, use your finger, or two, to apply the “come hither” motion if your partner is a woman. If your partner is a man you use the same technique to stimulate their P-spot.
This position is also known as the ultimate oral sex position for its popularity and success.
Who is saying that sex toys can only be enjoyed alone? Probably no-one, so grab your partner’s favorite toy and get it on. But there is also a wide range of erotic toys for couples.
You might have figured this out already, but if you didn’t this is an anal sex position. Get into a position most comfortable for you and your partner and enter them from behind. Use your free hands to stimulate them with the toy.
Your partner will definitively love this one, as it allows for multiple orgasms and who doesn’t love those?
The Banana Split
If you have a shy partner and they don’t want you to see their O-face then this is a great way to finish. In many ways, it is similar to doggy and is also a very good position for deep penetrating.
However, if you’re bored of your standard doggy then this adds an interesting twist. The main idea behind this position is that you are standing while your partner is either lying in bed, sitting on a kitchen counter, lying on your desk or whatever works for you.
The key is to have fun and enjoy one another.
The “Arc de Triomphe“
There are many versions and definitions of this one. Let’s just focus on the best way to enjoy it. That involves you sitting on a flat surface with your legs extended close together. Your partner then lowers onto your penis and rests their head on your knees.
They can also bend their knees if they’re flexible enough. To start, lean forward and backward. This should move your partner back and forth. Continue this motion until you can’t go any further.
While you’re at it you can enjoy the beautiful view of your partner that is about to reach their climax.
The Rag Roll
The easiest way to get into this position shifting from the missionary. Get on your knees while your partner puts their legs on your shoulders. This position makes your partner feel vulnerable and deliciously open.
There is so much space for creativity here. You can nimble on their mouth while they can rub your shoulders, back or chest. The combination of all these will rock both of your worlds.
Then you can also try to put your S.O.’s left leg across their right leg and put it on your left thigh. This way you can have the most sensual experience possible from this position.
Do you have an upcoming Netflix and Chill session? Then this is your go-to. Lay on your sides, facing the same direction with your pelvis slightly lower than theirs.
It’s one of those cozy positions with an emphasis on skin-to-skin stimulation. It’s so mind-blowing that it is regarded as the best sex position ever. Plus if you have problems with coming too soon then definitely try this one out.
The shallow penetration angle you prevents you from overstimulating. And you have to move slowly and with purpose because otherwise, you could slip out.
This position is ideal if you have a partner that doesn’t orgasm easily.
You just lie down on your back and bend one of your legs. Then your partner sits on you, while one of their legs is between yours and the other one is next to your body.
The point is that your partner is rubbing their genitals against your upper thigh. Yes, women are more likely to find this position interesting, but it can be still practiced with a male partner.
Whatever the gender of your partner is, you can put your hand on their shoulders for deeper thrusts.
Now the moment that you have been all waiting for.
Sex isn’t necessarily a matter of the bedroom. You can enjoy it on your floor, desk, kitchen, car or even outdoor. There are so many positions you can try outside your bedroom. Here are the two hottest ones.
The Razor Edge
Are you ready for that James Bond shower sex experience? Well, this is how you do it. First of all, steam up the bathroom before you start. But of course, if you don’t want to collect your jaw from the floor after you had a look at your water bill then don’t do it. It’s totally optional.
But it is recommended. Then get yourself and your partner to the shower and begin. Lean them on the wall of the shower and lift them in the air. Or you know, just don’t if you can’t. Then tell your partner to hug their arms around you for better coordination.
The next step is pretty obvious. Enter. And then try your best not to slip or fall, because as you know it can get very slippery in the shower.
The Iron Chef
The kitchen can be a very sexy place because watching your partner prepare a meal is so attractive. It can easily turn from a simple omelette in the morning into a quickie in the morning.
It usually doesn’t really matter what position you end up with because things get freaky so fast that you don’t even have time to think. You just act and go for whatever is fastest.
But if you happen to be one of those lucky ones who can keep their cool, then try the Iron Chef. It’s simple but effective. Sit your partner on the kitchen counter and just go from there.
What else do you need to know?
Now you know what you need to do and how to do it. If you really want to become a better lover you must take action and practice. But remember, take it slowly and be patient. Good things come to those who wait.